Should I take a break or resign? Is it appropriate to entrust your infant to a nanny?
It is impossible to provide a single response to each of these queries. It would help if you discovered the answer on your own.
In urban areas, there is usually no rush to become a mother after marriage. This is because, lately, many couples have started living apart from their families after marriage. Therefore, there is an opportunity to think independently. Mothers are also thinking about financial compatibility. For example, will the office give maternity leave? Is it possible for them to handle all the expenses in the future? Some also try to understand if they are mentally ready to become mothers. Several organizations have also now started realizing the importance of women workers. They see it as an investment, not a burden. But for many women today, a decision is still challenging. If work goes back to life, who will look after the child? Is it so difficult to decide to bring a child?
Not everyone plans on this. Even though a woman is educated, she may be forced to accept the pressure of her family. For many, it is a very natural decision. It is often said that they are taught from childhood to marry and become a mother. No one is ready to be a mother. And that’s right, in a sense. Because you cannot control everything in this situation, but some things can be within your control. What kind of expenses? Will you temporarily retire from work? What kind of support can you get if you join the workforce later? Having all these fixed in advance can make your job easier. You cannot control the various physical problems that occur during pregnancy.
Many companies do not provide any maternity benefits to their female employees. Also, there are not enough facilities to take care of children. So all the women who live in a small family in the city must take care of all the responsibilities themselves. Some may get some help from their family. At some point, the new family members also started to grow old. What should a woman do if she decides to have a job? As a result, the entire responsibility falls on the workplace. Mothers may be helped with benefits such as extended leave or crèche. And women are not inferior to men in any respect.
Women who leave their children in the hands of families or nannies and go to the office are not looked upon favourably by society. All these thoughts make motherhood difficult for women.
A woman should understand that the path she chooses according to her convenience is right. If one wants to establish himself in the world of work, he should do so. Some find fulfilment in raising children again. It also has the opposite disadvantage. Why waste hard-earned degrees? Women often want to succeed in everything. But it would help if you listened to your mind. Motherhood is a difficult time. It’s normal to be upset.
If the mother or mother-in-law does not understand the problem, seek the help of a woman who has had a similar experience. It would be best to talk to women around you about how they coped at home and abroad. Everyone’s problems are different. Some organizations have experienced women or counsellors. However, who can provide emotional support at this time? In addition to taking their help, a psychologist should also be taken.
Most women suffer from fatigue and insomnia after childbirth. At this time, the whole family should stand by him. It can also be difficult to do daily household chores. Many women join the office after losing all the weight just a few weeks after having a baby. But not everyone’s experience is the same.
Mothers who want to join the workforce; should arrange to collect their breast milk with the advice of a lactation consultant. That alone can be baby food.
The husband’s role is very important when deciding to become a mother. But most men in our country do not bother about pregnancy or childbirth. The whole thing is dismissed as a woman’s headache. At this time, a wife needs emotional support more than financial support. Both should sit together and plan everything before bringing the child, from changing the baby’s nappy to feeding. Fathers should have equal participation in everything.