Little by little, they built the family together with their love, faith and trust. A small word called ‘divorce’ breaks that happy family instantly. What’s strange, isn’t it? Divorce means that two people suddenly have different rights over things that were equal rights for two people.
Divorce is the only easy solution to all the problems of married life! It is easy to make hasty decisions. But how to handle everything from divorce to post-divorce, have you thought? If there is another life involved in the life of both of you, then you think again! Are you making the right decision? Yes, talking about your child, because the worst effect after divorce will be on your child. The child will become mentally disturbed and helpless due to both parents’ conflicting behaviour.
Divorce, after taking this decision firmly in your mind, you start thinking that all problems will end. It seems as if all the bad aspects of your married life will be filled with good things. Remember, there is a big difference between thought and reality. So before taking a big decision like divorce, see what you should think about once again.
Somewhere in the man’s mind, love and illusion are not hidden.
Around the man who had been weaving a web of dreams and hopes for so long. Looking into his eyes, he was getting all the sadness of the past, the pain of not getting and the life force to live. That person has suddenly become one of the adversaries of your life. You are unwilling to spend even one more moment with your ultimate love. Are you sure? Don’t love him anymore? Divorce is not marital murder. When you realize you can’t live without that person, everything will return to normal. So before taking such a big decision, make sure you have no love or affection for the person once divorced, but the hidden love inside your heart will only burn you. Divorce will create obstacles in the way of settling the post-life.
The man had many hopes and dreams that he had woven into his life. When you looked into his eyes, you could see the pain of the past, the struggle of not having what he wanted, and his determination to keep going. Suddenly, this person has become someone you are at odds with. You no longer want to spend time with your once-beloved partner. Are you sure you no longer love them? Remember, divorce is not the same as ending someone’s life. If you realize you cannot live without them, things can return to normal. However, before making such a life-altering decision, ensure you have no lingering feelings of affection for your partner, as these can only cause more pain. Divorce can complicate the process of dividing assets after death.
Your beloved child! Have you thought about it?
After divorce, both parents have a conflicting sense of right over their beloved child and their other possessions. The child has to pay for it. The decision of divorce is taken as a solution to various problems of married life. But you cannot provide all the benefits of ensuring the child’s normal life after the divorce. Will the child be able to cope with the sudden separation of parents and lead a normal life? In a post-divorce relationship, will the child be able to accept so much and develop the mental development of ten children? One should think twice before taking any wrong decision in haste. Keep a cool head. Do what feels good.
A justified cause for divorce is identified.
Quarrels or dishonour are very common issues in married life. If the husband and wife live together, there will be disagreements on moral pollution because marriage means two completely different minds living together under one roof. Spending nights in the same bed and struggling to survive centred around one house. Where we spend a small part of the day at school-college, even at the workplace or office, there is a difference of opinion. Mental mismatch. I get into trouble with things like a mismatch of tastes. If two different people live together under one roof, there will be some trouble. This is normal. But if you think, based on these sources, there is no other way to live better than divorce, then you are wrong. So before deciding to get a divorce, find out the logical reason why you want a divorce. If you repeatedly pull the word divorce based on a small incident, then maybe you will see a time, for a very small reason, a terrible event like divorce will happen in your life.
The first thing you need to do is decide how to manage your post-divorce life after the tension of the old relationship, which is your responsibility. Consider what to do after your divorce when you decide to end your marriage. What is on the forehead will be, first of all, shake this thought from your head. Remember that you have to organize your life. There may be no shortage of people to ooh and aah for you, but I can’t say for sure that those oohs, and aahs will help you get off to a good start in your new life. But if you move forward with your post-divorce life with a well-planned plan, I can assure you that you will have a bright future.
Divorce is the end result of a relationship without love and trust. When a relationship reaches the stage of divorce, hatred, anger, rage and blind ego increase so much that people do many wrong things at this time, even if they don’t want to. As a result, post-divorce life is disrupted. So don’t rush into blind emotions or ego and take a decision based on reality and everything around you. I hope you can take the right decision for your life.